My boyfriend didn't get me flowers for Valentine's, what should I do?

We%26#039;ve been dating for about 4 months, and everything is going well, although he moved to Miami 3 weeks ago, we said we were going to continue dating because we see a future together.. today Valentine%26#039;s day, I was expecting to get some flowers, or at least a single rose, but nothing, I did not get anything ;-(


he is comming to town tomorrow and said we were going to celebrate it then.


the point is that TODAY is the day I needed to get some love, why guys don%26#039;t get that?? am I being to dramatic?? please advise...should I tell him that it really bother me that I didn%26#039;t get anything??

My boyfriend didn%26#039;t get me flowers for Valentine%26#039;s, what should I do?
First of all, you agreed to celebrate it tomorrow. Therefore you should not expect him to partially celebrate it today. He can%26#039;t read your mind and he feels like you have already agreed to move it to tomorrow. Secondly you shouldn%26#039;t bring this up. The reason? This is not an important thing since you willingly went along with the date change. Why bring this up and potentially ruin the day you Both chose to celebrate?





I mean try to see what it would feel like if the shoe were on the other foot. how would you feel if you both chose to celebrate on the next day and he was mad at You for not sending Him something today? And Say you had already bought him something nice for Friday and here he is griping you out. Wouldn%26#039;t that ruin your mood and make you feel like you just got ambushed in some kind of weird game?





Do you actually want things to work with him or not? You just might run him off with this kind of behavior.
Reply:Dramatic? Yes I think you%26#039;re dramatic. You said that he wants to celebrate tomorrow - what in the world is wrong with that?? I mean he doesn%26#039;t *have* to do anything in the first place, and you%26#039;re mad because he isn%26#039;t doing it on a certain day?? I don%26#039;t think it is going to hurt you to wait just a little bit longer...Maybe he%26#039;s got something real special planned for you. You%26#039;re probably going to feel bad about this if he does.
Reply:YOUR BEING WAYYYY DRMATIC!...chill u been dating this poor guy for 4 months And already demamding if he said you guys would celebrate it tomorrow then so be IT!..I say you dont not mention anything YOUR GOING TO SCARE HIM AWAY!
Reply:you kinda r being a bit dramatic besides gifts arent everything y would a stupid plant change anything at all......just wai till wenever he comes and if nothing happens then u deff. got something to worry about.
Reply:You need to tell him how you feel tomorrow. But wait a little while, just in case he plans on surprising you. You are right, he should have gotten you something today, but thats alright. Maybe he has something BIG for you tomorrow. Hope this helps!
Reply:Yes you are being dramatic - if you both discussed that you will celebrate it tomorrow don%26#039;t expect him to read your mind. It%26#039;s like you%26#039;re setting him up for failure.





In the future if you expect something you have to let him know %26amp; he will make you feel great. You will avoid tons of arguments that way.





I would suggest not telling him that it bothered you - but next year, if you expect something on V-day MAKE SURE HE KNOWS!!!
Reply:your being a little over dramatic in my opinion - but still tell him howyou feel -





simply say i know were celebrationg today - but i wish you wouldve at least sent me a card -





but in his defense a lot of people arent celebrating valentines today - and they live in the same house in the same town - or at least the same town - some people are waiting for the weekend where more time is available and it can be enjoyed, not rushed - so tell him you wish he would have sent you something but your happy you are celebrating this day with him -





not telling him would cheat your self out of how you feel - but i dont think you should have your feelings hurt - or be angry either - if you are with someone you care about - better a day late than to have something rushed to you today that has no thought





not telling him can also set u up for failure in this relationship - if it does bother you - some people dont converse with their partner and hold things in that bother them and by the end of the year you have 9 issues and you fall into an argument and bring all of them up - so make him aware you thought he would send seomthing but your not mad - and you are happy to have him today - let him know its not a big deal - and you need to realize this isnt a big deal yourself - but dont hide your feelings -
Reply:maybe he%26#039;ll suprise you ;)


if not, well he%26#039;s coming tomorrow! he%26#039;ll probably make it up


atleast you got a man
Reply:well if he said he was coming to town tomarrow and you would celebreate then wait till tomarrow because he might have something better then flowers! so if i was you i would wait till tomarrow also becareful with long distance relationships! don%26#039;t work out that good!



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